So, let’s start with the tips. They are as follows:
- Trust you partner. Imagine that you undeservedly offend him/her with your distrust. You cannot change anything for the better tormenting yourself with suspicion and doubts – you will only ruin all good things. Your partner may, for example, think that if you don’t trust him/her, then you don’t love him/her anymore, so why should he/she remain faithful? Think about it and stop leading your relationship into a dead end;
- Stop controlling your partner. Excessive attention (for example, the twentieth telephone call to his/her workplace) will only irritate him/her. You shouldn’t put him/her into a state of dependence and micromanage him/her;
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- Believe in yourself, in your attractiveness. Love yourself – and you will be loved by others. The attention of the opposite sex is usually attracted by those whose head is held up high and whose shoulders are squared;
- Get yourself something to do. Work or hobby will help you drive away unfounded thoughts about the unfaithfulness of your partner. Think about it in this way: you will get rid of jealousy, deserve respect of your partner and, last but not least:-), will also do something useful!
- Never compare yourself with other people. Striving to achieve what a person you admire has achieved leads to disappointment in your own abilities, to diffidence and, as a consequence, to the development of the feeling of inferiority and to jealousy. So, stop comparing (remember that nobody is ideal, and those who you admire have their shortcomings, too) and make it a routine to think only about virtues of your own character;
- Act as if you were not a jealous person. Don’t respond to the behavior of your partner with reproaches, blame, silence, or sarcastic hints. Instead, if he/she wants to go out with other people, recommend him/her a good restaurant, café or movie house; if he/she is talking with another woman/man, join the conversation in a friendly manner, etc. This will help you gain control over incipient jealousy;
- If you, however, didn’t manage to gain control over jealousy using the method mentioned in the preceding paragraph, if it torments you for days or even weeks on end – then speak your mind. Talk with your partner, let hair down with him/her. Tell the truth and don’t be afraid to seem ridiculous. Your partner may even like it – if jealousy is presented in the right way, he/she will once again become convinced that you just love him/her very much.
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