OK, let’s see what to do when you feel lonely:
- The first thing to try is to surround yourself with lots of people. Socializing and time spent together with people you are interested in and like can really help. However, if you know that this strategy won’t help you because you usually experience what is called “feeling lonely in a crowd”, read on to find other ways to solve the problem;
- Try to find something positive in everything including situations where you are alone. For example, if one is alone, one has an opportunity to evaluate one’s life and to understand where to go from here. One has a chance to reconsider a lot of things. Or one just can finally tidy up one’s room:-);
- Get busy. The feeling of loneliness usually doesn’t arise when you do some work. If it doesn’t help, you can try a more extreme variant – becoming a workaholic (it is more difficult but also more efficient);
- Learn to think well of people. Those who like people are usually surrounded by friends;
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- Start to actively take care of those around you – even if they are strangers (if they are, you can, for example, yield a seat, thank warmly, tell the way, etc);
- If you have no friends, try to find them. People often feel lonely because they cannot share their feelings and experiences with others. Try to understand why you have no friends, what is the reason of it – perhaps, you are not very sociable? Or, maybe, you are too demanding of people? Whatever the case, you should look for opportunities to socialize with people;
- Work on your personal development. A person who spends all his/her time sitting in front of a TV or lying on a couch will hardly be interesting to other people. So, read books, study a foreign language, learn how to dance, how to cook, how to make origami, etc (anything will do);
- Share your feelings. Learn not to conceal what you have inside you. If you have trouble sharing your experiences and problems with people, then start keeping a diary;
- Go in for sports. During physical exercise, “happy hormones” are released by your body. They will neutralize the feeling of loneliness that torments you;
- Change image in such a way so that you feel more confident, more carefree, more joyful. People will feel that you are full of confidence, joy, and other pleasant things, and will want to chum up with you;
- Find a hobby;
- Find something you can take pride in;
- Take a good hot bath (it helps, too!).
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